I hope you don't mind me writing to you. I have only recently happened upon your blog after having bought and read your book (more than once).
Firstly as a Bisexual man myself who has only truly awakened in the last year or so, and has struggled to come to terms with this fact, can I just say your life and experience and everything you have shared in your blog and book feels very relatable.
What has helped me in particular are your blog posts and research related to the scientific or biological aspects of bisexuality in men. Your time and output, has given me relief to the anxieties and self-loathing I go through.
While you don't know me at all, it also actually seems to me in many ways you do. I just wanted to reach out and say thanks for doing what you do. I've never admitted to another man in any context that I am bisexual, even though this part of me has all but consumed my every waking hour for the last year or so.